About Erika

Hi! I’m Erika, I help unhappy couples to revitalize their marriages.

For over 20 years I have been providing relationship coaching and counselling to couples who have faced every challenge possible.

Be it infidelity, illness, trauma, financial stressors, or simply just not getting along.

My motivation is knowing that intense, pure love is at the heart of each and every one of those relationships and that by making simple changes and following a few guiding principles, that love can be restored to greatness and made even better than before. 

Dreams do come true. I know this, I’ve seen it happen with my clients, and I’ve made it happen for myself. 

Today, I enjoy an immensely happy and fulfilling marriage with my husband, but it wasn’t always so.

I used to live what many would consider to be a very glamorous lifestyle. When I wasn’t enthralled in managing businesses, I enjoyed a life of world travel and the company of business titans, ambassadors, and government officials.

At the early age of 21, I was a radio host for a Christian Radio station, doing the morning show with a listener count of 500k. At age 28, I was second in command of an international company. I have 2 full university degrees, (one in accounting the other in psychology), in addition to having a journalism diploma, interior design certificate and two life coaching certifications.

I had great professional successes. My marriage, on the other hand, was not that big of a success at all. My life was busy, can you relate? Being constantly busy stole away time with my husband. My whole life rotated around my own happiness and needs, not considering my husband’s. This lifestyle and my preoccupation with my career at the expense of my marriage contributed to me being disrespectful to my husband. The way I had spoken to him was surely not in a Godly manner.

Then, we faced a crisis that drastically stressed our marriage. Our
daughter was prematurely born at 29 weeks. Not knowing if she would survive added another layer of stress to my marriage. A traumatic experience like this, or like a spouse losing their job or a family member getting cancer, will put a lot of pressure on your marriage. I was stressed, overwhelmed, tired and mostly sad!

I’ve learned that I am way too small to handle the mess that was going on in my life. Physically and mentally, I was a mess. I had reached out to God. It took a while before He showed up. He had waited for me to surrender. But when He did, He gave me way more than what I could ever have hoped for.

I’ve since learned how to be productive and not just busy, how to prioritize my relationship, and how to communicate effectively. I can help you to not repeat the mistakes I made. I can teach you that it is not your husband’s job to make you happy, that you must find happiness within yourselves to be the best you can for each other. Marriage is about two individually happy people spending time and building a life together, while having fun doing it. Two hearts that are completely in sync. 

This is me now

With the help of God and a Christian marriage counsellor, I've learned how to be a loving wife.

I’ve learned how to:

  • Communicate with kindness and love.
  • Respect my husband.
  • Be a good mom.
  • Handle money in a Godly manner.
  • Be me and be happy in and with myself.

God made a masterpiece out of my broken marriage. 

Since 2004 I teach couples one-on-one and at retreats on how prayer can change their marriages. I teach them how small changes can change their marriages. I equip them with the skills needed to be amazing spouses. 

Love each other unconditionally, be kind and forgive one another.

I now know how to have a wonderful marriage

I know now how to have a wonderful marriage.

I've written a book about our marriage journey to inspire others.

By resolving my relationship issues, everything else had fallen into place as well. My house is an organized haven for us as a family (we have three girls). Our financial situation is under control as we don't spend money anymore on "things" but rather on creating memories together. One of our family's trademarks is to have fun and laughs together.

We have a family motto that guides us daily, which is displayed in our house:

“Do The Possible And God Will Do The Impossible!”

I invite you to change your family's future by doing the possible

Your marriage is your most precious possession. If your love story isn’t going the way you dreamed, you have the power to rewrite it. I specialize in happily-ever-afters and I’d love to help.

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