I Help Unhappy Couples To Revitalize Their Marriages

Marriage & relationship expert, Erika Botha, guides unhappy couples to reconnect emotionally and physically, and to build a happy future.

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From the brink of divorce to a happy marriage, I share my story on how my husband and I restored our marriage by adhering to simple principles and ground rules.

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Hi, I'm Erika

For over 20 years I have been providing relationship coaching and counselling to couples who have faced every challenge possible, be it infidelity, illness, trauma, financial stressors, or simply just not getting along.

My motivation is knowing that intense, pure love is at the heart of each and every one of those relationships and that by making simple changes and following a few guiding principles, that love can be restored to greatness and made even better than before.

Dreams do come true. I know this, I’ve seen it happen with my clients, and I’ve made it happen for myself.

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Restore Loving Relationships In As Little As 2 Days

Join me on an intensive 2-day Couples Counselling Retreat. We will take a journey together as I help you and your spouse heal emotionally, resolve your conflicts, learn how to strategically optimize your individual strengths and weaknesses, master vital relationship skills, and restore your marriage to magic.

You’re busy, tired, and need permanent results ASAP. This is why I have designed my program to be private, intensive, and to provide sustainable results. Over 2-days, this online private retreat is reserved for you and your spouse only. During this time, I will focus on nothing but transforming your relationship so that you live in love, joy, and peace again.

  • Reconnect and experience emotional and sexual intimacy again.
  • Discover and practice new techniques for interacting with your spouse that capitalize on your individual strengths and weaknesses.
  • Confront and overcome your not-so-beneficial personality traits, like jealousy, anger, narcissism, self-righteousness, selfishness, and poor self-image and self-esteem.
  • Master vital skills like effective communication (including listening), conflict management, how to check your perception, learning forgiveness, and more.

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What People Say

If you are looking for a kind, caring, smart, brilliant, and encouraging coach, then look no further.  She is the best. Thanks, Erika, for everything.


There are many wonderful coaches - truly helpful and amazing people, but Erika belongs in a very small subset of that group: the rare and magical coaches. Thank you, Erika, for changing my life for the better!


I'm excited about my future and I hope to continue to work with Erika. I enjoy Erika’s refreshing, uplifting and encouraging personality while she is busy fine-tuning my life.


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