I Help Unhappy Couples To Revitalize Their Marriages

Christian marriage counsellor, Communication Specialist, Author and Speaker, Erika Botha, guides unhappy couples to reconnect emotionally and physically.

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From the brink of divorce to a happy marriage, I share my story on how my husband and I restored our marriage by adhering to simple principles and ground rules.

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Hi, I'm Erika

For over 20 years I have been providing Christian marriage counselling and coaching and to couples who have faced every challenge possible, be it:

  • infidelity,
  • illness,
  • trauma,
  • financial stressors,
  • parent in-law issues
  • or simply just not getting along.

My motivation is knowing that intense, pure love is at the heart of each and every one of those relationships and that by making simple changes and following a few guiding principles, that love can be restored to greatness and made even better than before.

Dreams do come true. I know this, I’ve seen it happen with my clients, and I’ve made it happen for myself.

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Restore Loving Relationships In As Little As 2 Days

Join me on an intensive 2-day Couples Counselling Retreat. We will take a journey together as I help you and your spouse heal emotionally, resolve your conflicts, learn how to strategically optimize your individual strengths and weaknesses, master vital relationship skills, and restore your marriage to magic.

You’re busy, tired, and need permanent results ASAP. This is why I have designed my program to be private, intensive, and to provide sustainable results. Over 2-days, this online private retreat is reserved for you and your spouse only. During this time, I will focus on nothing but transforming your relationship so that you live in love, joy, and peace again.

  • Reconnect and experience emotional and sexual intimacy again.
  • Discover and practice new techniques for interacting with your spouse that capitalize on your individual strengths and weaknesses.
  • Confront and overcome your not-so-beneficial personality traits, like jealousy, anger, narcissism, self-righteousness, selfishness, and poor self-image and self-esteem.
  • Master vital skills like effective communication (including listening), conflict management, how to check your perception, learning forgiveness, and more.

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What People say


Erika got our relationship back on track. She taught us how to communicate properly and she helped us sort through our problems in a loving way. This was a great retreat. I will definitely recommend her. Thank you Erika.


Erika was very helpful in figuring out what we needed as a couple to have a better stronger relationship.


Erika's approach is soft and kind but can be tough when needed, which is good.


Erika was very professional and kind. Listened and knew what our problems were and gave us proper advice to help our future together.


Erika has shown us a great plan for the future, she has given us tasks to complete as she kept us accountable.


I thought life as I know it was over, but I learned that I have not lived my best life yet. Things turned out better than before and I grew so much in myself, my marriage and my God.


I was very impressed with her results and information. I'm very pleased with our weekend session. Thank you.


Erika really does care about you, and only wants what's best for the both of us. She has so many tools that helped us grow as a couple.


Erika has a kind heart with the goal to make the marriage or relationship work in the long run.

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